If you are a man living in Europe or the US, or any other region where Feminism has taken hold, then you are a man living amongst millions of toxic women. These women are not just a little toxic, they are toxic in the extreme. They are so toxic, that simply being around them is detrimental to a man’s health and well-being. Like highly radioactive nuclear waste, even distant proximity to these women can bring about awful consequences for men so exposed.
Feminism, and its widespread and devout adoption by most Western women, has created a monstrous female mentality that inflicts itself upon anyone and everyone around them. This mentality is a me-first, I-want-it-all, I-am-better-than-you attitude that these women have embraced in full knowledge (or else unforgivable ignorance) of the harm this is causing to those around them and particularly men.
How toxic is she? Let me count the ways…
Women are toxic if you marry them
Marriage used to mean something important and formed the bedrock of society and indeed, all of civilisation. In various forms, religious or not, and across cultures and throughout history, the formal definition of family with the pairing of men and women has served a vital purpose in incentivising men and nurturing women and the couple’s children.
Now marriage is a grossly unequal contract, burdening the man with financial responsibility for the woman whilst imposing on her no duties, restrictions or requirements whatsoever (a white elephant).
With no-fault divorces, a woman is free to choose to leave the marriage (and 90% of the time she initiates divorce) at the moment she feels like it in the comfort of knowing that he will be forced by law to support her and the choice she has made. The argument runs that a woman should be permitted to continue to live after divorce in the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed. However, there is no such provision for the man’s lifestyle – it is apparently fine for him to experience a huge drop in income and quality of life in order that he fund his ex-wife’s choice.
Women have become so toxic, particularly American women, that they have themselves realised that they are increasingly being bypassed as wives in favour of brides from other non-western countries. Instead of seeing this as a wake-up call to divest themselves of their toxicity, they instead try to inhibit men from seeking wives unsullied by Feminism. Western women are at risk of making themselves irrelevant.
I am married and I believe in it’s true purpose, but I could not in good faith recommend marriage to men as a rule. Unless a man takes the utmost care in choosing a woman who renounces Feminism, explicitly, and whom he genuinely feels he can trust with his life, marriage is simply not viable for a Western man. She has too many options, too many weapons and too many agencies – including government – that have a vested interest in encouraging her to divorce him and destroy him in the process.
Divorce and “Financial Leeching”
02m 14s
Women are toxic if you have sex with them
With the unjustified hype surrounding date-rape, drunk-rape, drug-rape and even spousal-rape, women are primed and ready to accuse any man of rape should they find themselves in the uncomfortable position of having slept with him and then regretted it in the morning. Women are fortunate enough to have a get-out-of-guilt-free card in the form of an easy accusation of rape supported by the police, by charities and by media.
The Myths and Legends of Rape
06m 53s
Women are toxic if you employ them
Hiring a woman of child-bearing age is nonsensical for a small business. Besides the risk of her leaving to have children, women in general in the workplace are a risk and a burden to the employer and to co-workers. The presence of women at work opens up a multitude of liabilities that simply do not exist with male employees. Sexual harassment claims, pay gap complaints, maternity leave, equal opportunities complaints, “women’s troubles”… For large businesses, there is a net gain to the employment of women, but to small business, where every employee matters, women are toxic.
Female, toxic and in the workplace
01m 35s
Women are toxic if you drive them home or share an elevator with them
False accusation of sexual assault or harassment and even rape are very common in the UK. So much so, that various rules need to be followed governing interactions between men and women. Ostensibly, these rules are there to protect women from male predators (with all men falling into this definition). However, despite the misandry inherent in the rules, they actually help men more than women because whilst actual assaults and harassment by men is rare, false accusations against men are common. It pays for men to keep their distance from toxic women and to make sure that they are never alone with a toxic woman.
Self-defence against the toxic woman
01m 56s
Women are toxic if you have children with them
Toxic mothers are completely free to deny visitation rights to non-custodial fathers and the courts will do nothing about it under the pretence of supporting “the best interests of the child”. Women are also free to falsely accuse men of domestic violence and child sexual abuse in order to prevent him seeing his children and to ensure that she wins custody. When her perjury is uncovered, the courts rarely punish the mother under the mantra of (you’ve guessed it!) “the best interests of the child”.
The toxic woman and custody violence
05m 23s
Update: added 12 Feb 2010
More on false accusations of child abuse by mothers
(featuring Michele Elliott and Erin Pizzey)
02m 26s
Women are toxic if you disagree with them
If a man disagrees with the tenets of Feminism, indeed if a man raises any viewpoint whatsoever that is at odds with any aspect of “women’s rights”, he can safely be labelled a “misogynist” by women. In this way, any and all opinions of men in defending themselves from the abuse of Feminist ideology is suppressed by categorising it as an attack on women.
Men must not speak of their oppression
04m 26s
Women are toxic if you work with them
Many, many men working in the City of London will not take an elevator alone with a woman because of their justified fear of sexual harassment charges. Even powerful men who run large companies live in perpetual fear of the potential accusations of their female employees.
Sexual harassment
00m 29s
Women are toxic if they are in government
The selfishness of female politicians and their partisan Feminist politics, knows no bounds. The influence of these types of toxic women is unduly enhanced by all-women shortlists for parliamentary selection in the UK.
Women in government
03m 33s
Will women change? Is there light at the end of the tunnel?
No, there isn’t.
As things stand, there is no incentive whatsoever for women to step away from Feminism and the advantages it provides them over men. Even though the advantages are actually detrimental to women as well as men and families, they feel so good to women, there is no hope of women relinquishing them. Their selfishness is simply too extreme for them to see the trap that they have dug for us all.
Women have fallen for the siren-song of Feminism and they truly believe that they are the Chosen Ones and are inherently superior to men.
They are happy when they strip a man of assets on divorce and deny him his rights to see his children – they actually believe that they’ve won something when this happens. They cannot see the damage they wreak against their own children because they are blinded by self-interest.
Women love affirmative-action that denies employment to more qualified men and they are pleased with the ease with which they can sue their employers for whatever oppression they happen to be feeling that day – they think of it as female empowerment. They cannot see the devastating damage to Western economies that will come home to roost within the next decade.
Men and boys are treated as inferior to women and girls when the fact is that the world depends on men in a way it doesn’t depend on women. As the saying goes: men build, women decorate.
By sidelining men and boys, and indeed, by oppressing them, Western society is actively pursuing self-destruction. Failing to support and value men is an immense act of suicide on an international scale.
Women are consumers far more than they are wealth creators and women depend on men more than men depend on women. If every woman died today, men would invent artificial wombs and get on with things. If every man died today, civilisation would begin to end when the first light bulb burned out.
The essential genius of man
01m 06s
Toxic women are the norm as opposed to the exception in Western society. For men, it pays to become an apt student of such women so that he can detect them on contact and take adequate steps to protect himself from their toxicity. A man can enjoy his life free from their venom, but it is not an easy thing to do and he is likely to be stung more than once before learning the ropes.
Steps to a life free from toxic women
Nothing a man can do can make him fully safe from the influence of toxic women, There are too many of them and they have been awarded too many powers by the state. For example, a man cannot protect himself from a false accusation of rape that will see his name broadcast in the media whilst the false-accuser is safe in anonymity. Nor can a man protect himself from female domestic violence when we have police force’s that are determined to deny that a woman could ever be responsible for violence in a relationship.
However, there are some basic steps a man can take to minimise his risk and reduce the likelihood of falling foul of a toxic woman.
1) Don’t get married, even with a pre-nup.
2) Never have sex with a woman you don’t know very well if she has consumed alcohol – even one drink.
3) At work, never allow yourself to be alone with a woman. If you have an office, keep the door open if she comes in. If it’s just you and her in an elevator, exit and take the stairs. Don’t give female colleagues a lift home or anywhere in your car unless there is a third person with you.
4) It’s no accident that there is no male pill and most children born today are conceived without the father’s explicit consent. Those two issues are worthy of some thought.
So, do what you can and always wear protection if you don’t want kids. This includes men who are married and who are in long term relationships. Yes, I know it’s unrealistic, but it’s about your life choices – you can make them yourself or have them made for you by a woman. Think about it.
5) If you are a small employer, don’t hire women of child-bearing age. If you do, you are likely to become an ex-small employer.
6) Take a paternity test for all of your children. Your wife should have no issue with this and should actually support you in your desire to have the same certainty of parenthood as she does. If she resists (even passively) and brings trust into the issue, and doesn’t understand how positive it is for the family and for you to know your status and to own your destiny, as she does – you are dealing with a toxic woman.
Surely, it’s not as bad as all that?
No, of course it isn’t. I hope. But it is a long way toward it and we have those millions of women who have embraced Feminism to thank for that.
Fantastic. Absolutely fantastic. And 100% spot on.
Indeed, 100% spot on. Having said that, activist feminism is almost dead ; it died as soon as most females were possessed with the anti-masculine values it promotes. Likewise, Christianity may be dead as a faith, but, in actual facts, most people betray attitudes and thoughs based on so-called Christian values (compassion for, and deification of, the weak, of the non white male ; the “survival of the less fit”, based on the age-old identification of the female with the poor and the weak – hence the huge number of females in early Christianity ; etc.). Still likewise, Communism may be dead as a political regime ; the fact still remains that most people in the West betray a Communist like mentality.
The main reason why females rule nowadays is that most prominent men are effeminate : it’s only biologically that those are males. Only a ruling class of effeminate males and of homosexuals can let women become so powerful, so toxic, as they now are.
I am not aware that activist Feminism is almost dead but I agree that most women (and indeed, men) have been instilled with anti-male sentiment over a number of decades.
However, in my opinion, it is not women who rule but rather it is those people who use women that rule.
As I have said in Origins of Feminism, saying that women created Feminism is like saying that pigs created the bacon industry. Feminism supplies women with privilege so that men can be oppressed and so that family can be dismantled. None of these things are good for women but they feel good to women.
Feminism has enabled women to be used as a tool and a force against men and family and this usage of women will continue until women wake up to their status as pawns. The problem, is that women are not even close to being ready to wake up and instead, continue to pursue their role as pawns with ever more vigour, to the detriment of us all.
Absolutely spot on! I have been saying this for years. Feminism is not a movement. It is a deliberate NWO ploy designed to destroy Family so that the rulers can more readily enslave us all.
Request: A post about good women. If a man HAS to marry because he craves home, children, comfort and affection, who is the woman he should look for?
The problem with a post about good women is that defining what one man wants is not likely to achieve very much. And attempting to define broad virtues in women is also a very subjective thing.
I know what I wanted in a wife and mother and I have it in my wife. She knew what she wanted in a husband and father and she has it with me. As for other men, my suggestion is to either determine what you want from a woman (not easy, I know) or else follow the enormous amount of guidance out there from men who have found out to their cost about women you don’t want to be involved with.
One has to narrow-the-field somehow and ruling out toxic women is a very good start. Find out what any prospective woman thinks about Feminism. If she is supportive of it in any way or in any variant, or says that she used to be a Feminist but not anymore, or thinks that she likes some parts of Feminism but not others, etc, you know you are dealing with a toxic woman. It really is that simple.
You then have choices in how you proceed. I would suggest that you look for a woman who rejects Feminism because then – and only then – you probably have a woman who understands just how hateful an ideology Feminism is, but more importantly, you probably have a woman with whom there is a chance of building a strong family. Feminist women i.e. toxic women, have little understanding of the needs of family as all things come second to her rights.
So only women who have always rejected feminism are “good” in your eyes? I don’t understand what drawbacks you might see to a woman who “says that she used to be a Feminist but not anymore”. People grow and change over time, so why would you regard this as different from being a goth in high school or having given up smoking?
Being a smoker might cause cancer within that person. In contrast, being a Feminist is cancerous to others.
Trusting someone like that has potential consequences that are too high, so why should a man take the risk?
It is issues like these that I hope will make many of your Europeans, especially European men have a different take on the issue of immigration. Most Europeans are very closed minded about immigration, but hopefully these videos will make them re-think about immigration, and be supportive of immigrant and immigration issues, especially female immigration, because more female immigration–(legal or not)–well give men in Europe more options, hope, and extra choices to avoid the toxic female. Be supportive of immigration issues and be supportive immigrants coming in as families, because these women, especially if they still with their families, will continue to subscribe to the culture of the country were their family came from.
I don’t think that an immigrant woman is necessarily any better than a local woman because toxicity in women is about her views on what is important rather than where she is from. There may be very many toxic-women-in-waiting who emigrate so that they can flower in a country dominated by Feminism. And what is the value of a woman who has grown up in the UK (or particularly the US or Canada) and still rejects Feminism? Like gold dust, in my opinion, and worthy of all of your efforts and vitally, worthy of your trust.
However, it is much more likely that a woman who has grown up away from the vitriol of Feminism and, therefore, with an intact family, would be good partnership material. And that’s all that I have found most men to want when it comes down to it: a partner rather than an adversary.
This is where you’re mistaking again. Immigrant women, especially women from the east and from the south–In general, especially if they still live with their families, Are subscribing to the culture of the country to which her parents and grand parents come from, and most of these cultures DO NOT EMBRACE feminism the way women from Western Nations embrace it. Immigrant women are better at forming companions for man then local women, TO the point where even the “clash of cultures” in the relationship is worth putting up with, because Feminism has caused things to get out of hand so much. This is why women’s groups are so active in passing anti-immigration legistlation, because they do see the foreign women as competition and “bringing down their market value”. And seeing so man happy western men with non western women PISSES THEM OFF!
Don’t get me wrong, if you can find that local woman who rejects feminism and wants to be your companion, more power to you, but statistically speaking, and as your reporting shows, chances of finding a good companion in a foreign non-western woman is much greater than local women.
Well sorry to pop ur bubbles of hope about non-western women mates….but coming from a non western south asian country i can tell u confidently that the tides are changing very fast over here too…modern western culture and western values are seeking into our traditional societies very fast and it’s called “globalization” my friends….in our global capitalist economy no country can (unless of course ur country has a closed economy or is communist)survive on its own and who has the most biggest and the most influential economy in the world…yeah that’s right lads “”ding ding”…United States of America…i know none of u reading this who actually visit this website r idiots…cuz u actually need brains to understand what happens behind the curtains of feminism and modern culture….but then of course u already know why feminism is an avid supporter of homosexual rights….it is because by allowing homosexual marriage the nature or the core essence of so called “patriarchal tyranny of the nuclear family” can be demolished in order to re-invent the institution of family itself to favour women and feminist ideology….and the thing is there are literally hundreds of thinly veiled Feminist NGO’s working in countries like mine and supporting various gay rights groups and such in order to create their feminist utopia all over the globe…and the most disturbing thing is they are succeeding very very fast…..so probably in about another 10 or 20 years women in 3rd world countries like mine would be no different from women in the west…i’m sorry to say this but i’m depressed myself about the way things are going….it seems to me as though there really is no light at the end of the tunnel for us men……
I agree with your analysis – it happens that global capitalism and Marxist feminist ideology have an unfortunate synergy existing – we are easier to control and are bigger consumers whilst marriage and the traditional two parent family can be undermined. What we need to do is remind those guys running the massive corporations that many of them are also MARRIED and that have they thought of the consequences of bringing their children into a world that is growing increasingly feral and hostile because of their short sighted goal of putting the dollar before quality of life. If they ignore us for too long then all will lose.
There is an issue as serious as terrorism here. Even more. Why? Because toxicity works incidiously and has become commonplace. The chances of getting blown by a terrorist bomb are one in some pretty big number. But those of meeting a toxic woman one in a much smaller number. We’ve all met them. We’ve all seen or sensed their powers of manipulation.
People are now having to suffer the discomfort and indignity of queuing barefoot without their belts at airports. They even have to have x-ray porno pics made of them no matter modest or shy they are.
Special measures for special circumstances, eh. Likewise toxic women. Life will have to change in response to them. Our period in history is a VERY strange one.
You marry, have a relationship, have sex, now at your own peril. But as a man will take any manner of risk for that piece of fleeting love that he craves, I think things will get worse before they start getting better.
Thank you for bring to light the difficulties men face in society today. But do not over look that there are women who look to men to rise up and show themselves and the virtue that women are looking for. Many women are saddened by not being able to be homemakers any longer. The family is becoming more and more fragmented. We will pay the price for this in the near future. The value of a good Father is priceless. I am very saddened when I hear women degrading men in any way. I am the mother of two boys, I am concerned for them. I support them in every way I can. Please allow women of this mind to encourage you – not all women are toxic. Women and men are needed for humanity to move forward to a more balanced and wholesome society.
Thank you for your thoughtful and positive comment. I know that the way I chose to write this article must have made it a difficult thing to read and then respond to in the constructive way that you have.
I most certainly agree that not ALL women are toxic, and I hope that the article and its follow up have made that clear.
Feminism has been no good for women, men or children, but too many women have believed it to be a positive ideology. These women have been the reason for its success and their belief in the ideology of Feminism has made them toxic to men.
Not only toxic to the men they directly have relations with, or falsely accuse, or maliciously divorce, or deny access to children etc, but also to every man that witnesses such behaviour. It creates justified fear and mistrust of women in a large body of men who may have never been directly affected by such awful, Feminism-inspired behaviour.
I am encouraged by women who spurn Feminism and recognise it for what it is – a hateful and anti-family device that makes use of women whilst pretending to be positive for women. Men and women must rediscover trust and fairness and once again recognise that the sexes compliment each other, they do not oppose one another. That is the future I want to see and what I believe most men want to see. I’m not sure what most women want considering that most women have adopted Feminism to some degree.
Good luck with your boys, I truly hope they do not fall foul of a Feminist woman in their future; I wish the same for my son. The key to that happening is to destroy Feminism and that’s what I am helping to do as part of the men’s movement.
Best regards,
mwm
Donna — there are indeed a number of intelligent women who, through their empathy with today’s men, have shown the brave wisdom to distance themselves with the screwy feminists. We all appreciate them, and wish there were more like you.
But our issue/fight is with the establishment: government and big business. They have adopted feminist ideology because it suits them. It sustains and even builds their power ambitions.
We have nothing against women. But we are very angry with that awkward neurotic minority who are taking others with them, and turning their own stupidty into the accepted norm.
Surely women who stoop to these despicable tactics need to be eradicated from the gene pool anyway?
It will make way for the more worthy and wonderful women whom I KNOW are out there,we’ve just got to find them and show them how wonderful we are.
I do not agree,however,that tip-toeing around these horrors is going to help.Kowtowing to this type of oppression has,throughout history,only served to exacerbate the problem and it seems that men have here a particularly merciless adversary.One that is willing even,to jeopardise the future of it’s own children.(Not much of that sort of thing in the animal kingdom).
Gentlemen,take courage,”faint hearts never won fair maidens”..
“Ubicumque homo est,ibi benefici locus est”..
SATIS!!
The vast majority of women are in many ways like children. They want to be supported and protected, and want to be spoiled… but they don’t appreciate all the things men have to put up with and the effort that’s put in on their behalf. It’s almost like when children assume being “grownup” and walking into a bank is what get’s you money, not working like a dog all day.
Women also don’t seem to recognize that masculinity is what appeals to them even as they complain about it. Growing up my mother was in many ways a very masculine presence; she was the disciplinarian, she was the one who pushed us to succeed and made the rules… my sister and I whined over it but we also confided in each other that we wanted our future husbands to have a personality just like hers. Hierarchy and patriarchy are not dirty words, they describe things that are absolutely essential to a functional society.
I live in America & its just as bad here,but I can see its much worse in the U.K!
There is one more thing a man can do to protect himself, but only as a long term strategy.
Become an MRA. Maybe create a blog, something like this one. Maybe donate to one of the few men-friendly charities like The Mankind Initiative. Maybe find some other way to promote men’s rights.
“Surely women who stoop to these despicable tactics need to be eradicated from the gene pool anyway?”
Feminism is in all women. The feminist movement merely brings it out.
Women demand equality. Demand, nag, gripe and holler. Then, they act like they have no brain when it comes to their part in a relationship. They ‘throw’ their heart into the relationship, and give it all, which we have all done and paid for. But when women get hurt they play the ‘weaker sex’ card instead of the “EQUAL” card. Suddenly, little girl, whining and crying comes true, and the EqUal part just does not serve, any more. The interests are to avoid being responsible. Not my fault, just like a teen girl does. Net net, you lose the ‘feed of off the man’ card in court. It is time to change the formula. Equal is equal, regardless of acting, whining and seeking pity, when you just Forced ‘Equal’.
Men should have their own space. I think sports is a gender nutural zone, however, in sports where males are the competitors, particularly in combat sports, a female referee is not appropriate. Bad call by the UFC..
I’m sure you have female supporters, and until I get clarification on some of your view points, I can’t say that I am one yet. I do empathize with you on the issue of feminism. I kinda dont fit on anywhere. Other women hate me, because aparently, I’m a misogynist because I’m not a feminist, and conscious men on the issue of feminism are skeptical of me because I’m a women.. As a woman of color I can vouch that feminism has excedingly done more harm than good.
I have a question for you. I don’t want to take what you said out of context and I know you aren’t speaking of all women. Don’t worry, I am not the “all police”. I’m certainly not attacking or trapping you when I ask you this: Are you against single women in the work place in general?
I can’t say that women are not trouble makers in the work place. I’ve had my far share and couldn’t imagine working around such nonsense until retirement. I’m continuing my education so I can advance into a nursing career that is male dominated.
No, I am not against women in the workplace in general, single or otherwise. The specific issues that I do have with women at work, I have outlined here and in the Equality films.
Feminism is the root cause of societal collapse and breakdown that the US and the west is now facing. We are at a point of no return.
There are many toxic women out there but there are some good ones. I was married to a loving woman whom I had six children with. she got involved in a (superchurch) which made my life miserable. I put up with it untill she drug it into the marriage bed. One morning. I looked in the mirror and asked how long are you going to put up with this shit the guy in the mirror said it ends today! I give her more chances and she would not compromise So I filed and left I paid every dime of child support + Roadrunner
I have an interesting situation and have not found anything in the way of literature which might help. I have a female cousin who has cerebral palsy. I believe her to be a sociopath – highly toxic. She has abused her husband, but is pointing the abuse finger at him in court and using resources intended to help actual battered women to keep this good man from his children. Question: How does one take the stand in court, point a finger at her, call her an abuser, and not seem like an ass? She’s a doe-eyed, pixie of a red-head with the obvious physical characteristics of cerebral palsy. The family has believed her stories of abuse for years because – Why would she lie? I’m becoming the meanie for telling the truth and not protecting her. How do you fight this kind of toxic woman?